Archive for October, 2007

02 Oct

9 Easy Ways to Meet New People

Americans are lonelier than ever.
Research conducted by sociologists at Duke and the University of Arizona found that we have fewer friends and confidants than ever before. Loneliness is a real problem because it’s a breeding ground for unhappiness and despair. Research has consistently shown that people with strong friendships lead happier […]

04 Oct

Is Television Killing Your Happiness?

Your entire life, you’ve heard various reasons why watching too much television is bad for you, and I’m about to give you one more: watching too much TV affects your happiness.
Television commercials – and often the programs themselves – purposefully make you feel unsatisfied in order to trigger your buying impulse.
After […]

05 Oct

Reader Question: How can I make your experience at this site more enjoyable?

I give a lot of advice on this site. Today, I am going to ask you for something in return: your opinion. I issue a challenge to every single subscriber and reader to come out of the woodwork and leave a comment telling me what I can do to make this Web Site […]

10 Oct

The 9 Factors of Workplace Happiness

According to a study conducted by The Conference Board in 2005, Americans are increasingly unhappy with their jobs:
–Only 14% claim to be “very satisfied.”
–50% say they’re dissatisfied.
–25% say they’re “just showing up for the paycheck.”
In the interest of investigating why so many of us dislike our jobs, I offer you these […]

12 Oct

Should Schools Teach Happiness?

Okay, I’ve got today’s watercooler topic for you: Should schools teach happiness? Here’s a video for you to to review and weigh in on:

The video is a short review of a happiness program at a German high school, designed to teach young people how to be happier. Critics argue it’s a […]

16 Oct

Yes, Self-Esteem Matters — 5 Ways to Boost Yours Today

Surprise: self-esteem matters.
Lately, I’ve been hearing from a lot of people who flat-out deny that self-esteem matters. They shout that success is related to performance, not self-esteem.
They’re right about the relationship between success and performance, of course, but they’re missing the point. And the point is this:
People with high self-esteem […]

18 Oct

Two Types of Happiness — Increase Both!

There are two kinds of happiness:
–First, there’s the feeling of happiness, which we might describe by saying, “I am in a happy mood.”
–Second, there’s the level of satisfaction we feel toward the way our lives are going, which we might describe by saying, “I am a happy person. ”
Yes, the two types of […]

23 Oct

How Risking Failure Can Make You Happier

Have you ever thought about taking a chance? Risking failure?
Maybe right now you’re thinking about starting a business, running a marathon, learning a new skill, or going back to school. Maybe you’re thinking about doing something simple, like asking your boss for a raise, or something complex, like trying to convince your board […]

26 Oct

How to Make the World a Better Place One Tiny Gesture at a Time

Is there a particular type of rude behavior that grates on your nerves?
I personally can’t stand it when people talk in the movie theater. And yet, even as I sit there in the dark, popcorn in hand, listening to the cattle-like droning of the couple two isles back, it occurs to me […]

29 Oct

Have You Learned to Be Helpless?

This post is for anyone who’s ever felt trapped.

Workers trapped in dead-end jobs
Spouses trapped in unfulfilling marriages
Depressives trapped in despair
Addicts trapped in a helpless cycle of substance abuse, cigarette smoking, or binge eating

Lonely people trapped in emotional isolation
Poor people shackled by poverty

Anyone old enough to read this article has […]